Yes, I added that last part… “to be human is to err”…
In my last article I was talking about work and “being human at work”. That made me think, what is being human?? What do we mean by being human or humanity in general.
I think the most important thing to realize as humans is….. that we are not perfect and we make mistakes everyday, each moment of the day.
Take a small example, someone asks you “How are you?”… How many permutations/combinations can you think of in response to that question? You may say…
“I am fine” or “Why are u asking?” Or “ I am ok, just let me be” or “I am doing good, thanks!” Or “ It doesn’t matter how I am, you tell me how are you?”
Can you imagine that one simple question can have thousands of answers depending on our mood. Similarly, every situation in life has thousands of answers/ responses / choices.
We make choices every second, in what we talk, how we behave, how we act/react. But none of the ways is perfect or absolutely right.
What may seem perfect response to you… may seem inappropriate to someone else.
Life gives us choices every second. The main fact is that we have limited time, so we make only 1 choice per second and move on to the next thing. And the fact of the matter is, every choice is imperfect. TO ERR IS HUMAN!!
So, let’s give each other some room to make mistakes, let’s allow each other to make mistakes. Everytime someone says something, let’s accept it as his best mistake he could make in that moment and forgive him if we don’t like it.
We all are doing fine in life!! It’s ok…. live a moment and move on….There were million combinations/ways in which you could have lived your life but we are not going into the past now!!
We are just going to make new mistakes, better mistakes, better choices from NOW ON and more than that ACCEPT the fact that none of our choices are absolutely perfect and it’s ok….
Be human… be forgiving to yourself and to others…
Let things pass by if they are gone… Don’t get too angry at yourself for making mistakes because life is a learning experience and if we don’t err, we don’t learn. That’s why we are not perfect. And please don’t get too angry at children or elderly….
Next time, when your spouse says something or your child or even your boss…. Accept it as an imperfect version of themselves that they are best trying to put forward for u. (An imperfect “being human” thing) and it’s ok!!
Don’t try to change them or Mould them each time… Just accept them!!
This is the first rule to “Being human”…. Be willing to make mistakes and be willing to “Forgive”!!!
Let’s all be human… let’s all be ready to make mistakes and learn and more than that… be willing to accept and forgive!!